I commend your keenness on getting yourself well-acquainted with God and His religion and His teachings. One of the most important features of a good woman, is her deep faith in God (Allah) (SWT), and her sincere conviction that whatever happens in this life, and whatever fate befalls her, only happens through the will and decree of God; whatever befalls a person would have been impossible to avoid, and whatever does not happen could not have been made to happen.